Sunday, 28 August 2011

To 2 of my best friends:

Yo, here's the post that I have promised! XD Enjoy~~~

To Feet:
Hmm, lets see... Where should I start?? O.O (Feet: Waa... this turkey 没诚意 one!)

Okay, we really get to know each other in Form 3, our classes were next to each other. I can't remember already whether we had talked to each other before during Form 1 and 2, or did anything together. Should have, I think, during guides activities like guide tests or any school celebration duty, but I can't recall any of that. The first memory of me about you is during Form 3. You made me laugh A LOT and thanks to you, I became more sociable! :) And I learned something from you...that is...beating people is a really good way to greet them! Lol! But I only start to beat people when I feel close and comfortable with them. And the closer I am with them, the harder I dare to beat them. Lol! Oopps, I think I've said something wrong...Eh, don't take revenge on me yeah!! But I think this is one of the way that the three of us indirectly use to strengthen our friendship bond, no? :D I can't imagine myself hitting Jackers or Min or Jiax though...

To be honest, I always thought that friendship will end sometime. I didn't even contact my primary school friends anymore. I thought that everyone will move on with their own life sooner or later, and make new friends in different environment. But YOU have changed my view. You taught me that friendship can be kept as long as we make the effort. We shouldn't leave it to fate and eventually grow further apart, instead we should put in effort to maintain it if it is a friendship worth keeping! You are the first and only person that I have hang out together! (I mean just two people only, not group gathering.) In Kedah and also Mother's Day at 1U. XD I'm actually scared to be alone with another person, you know, because I'll feel like I have to keep thinking up interesting topics to talk about, if not I'll bore the person. But with you, I can't recall myself doing that! Endless topics flow out from my mouth without going through my mind. Remember the time after guide activity, both of us held on to an end of a rope each and walked aimlessly around the school, talking non-stop... We talked about a lot of things, from north to south, from east to west, the topics changed really fast, and I think we walked a few rounds around the school! Although I don't remember any of the topics that we have talked about, but that's also the first time I've done this kind of things with anyone. I feel like I can share lots of things with you, and I even dare to tell you secrets about myself, some of the secrets only you alone know besides my family! Because I know that even you laugh at me or anything, but you won't judge me, as I can see the image of me inside you. It's the real me, without any 伪装. So, I can always show my true self to you.

I can also always rely on you to tell me the truth. When I need criticism, I will ask for your opinion. And I'm sorry, because I can't be like that to you. For example, when you ask me is your hair very messy, I will always answer that it's okay... During that time, I really do think that it's okay. Now when I think back, maybe it's because I had already gotten used to messy hair. Most of the time, I don't use comb when tying up my hair! Shh, don't tell others... XD But now, I think I've seen things more clearly now, and I start to have my own point of view. So, next time you try to ask me again. XD

Hmm, can't think of anymore ideas to write... Never mind, I'll reveal a little bit more in my future posts if I think of anything else! ;D Stay tuned!

Next, move on...
To Wing:
I know you a little later, but you are the second person that I'm comfortable to be with! And the only person besides Miss Jaffy that I dare to beat until now! Lol!

The most vivid memory of me about you is the library. It's the place that we spent waiting for our parents to come after school. We always eat lunch together (my lala!!!), then bring our bags to library. Talk, laugh, study, discuss, and sleep. These were the things that we've done there. I think you're always the first one to go back first, right? Even though we'll see each other the next day, I still feel reluctant every time saying goodbye. Then after you went back, I would look forward to "langgar" your bag at the tapak the next morning. ;p It's really fun! When you were talking with a group of friends, then I would pushed you from your back, then you would chase me around the tapak. Lol! Did we look childish back then??? Hope no one was actually looking at us... This "langgar bag" thing is also one of our way to strengthen our bond. Hehe! XD

During Form 5, I liked to visit you in your class, and disturb you! ;D Sometimes after assembly, we should head to our class immediately, but I still purposely escaped from those prefects and went to the opposite direction, to you class! Disturbing you and Jaffy was really fun, and it kinda make my day! XD We really laughed a lot those days, right? Hmm...missed those days a lot. It was indeed because of those laughter with you guys that made me love going to school, which made me have the spirit to study. Then, sometimes during recess, when I was not doing class duty or busy with guides stuff, I would visit your class too. Sometimes you were not there, but when you were there, I was really happy! Hehe, then came the beating and slapping... XD

And Wing, do you know, I always admire you! You are sensitive towards other people's feeling, and can share their problems. The main point is, your life is very colourful, full of many different emotions. I, on the other hand, don't really experience that much. It's not like my life is not good, and I know I should be happy and contented and appreciate my life, but I can't avoid myself from envying you sometimes. You have ups and downs in your life, unlike mine, rather flat. But I can't blame anyone on this, because I know very well that I am the one who chooses my own path. Maybe it's because you are ambitious and willing to take risk, like taking the QG test, I feel that you are more mature than me, and you have gone through much more than I have. Me? I prefer to be in the shade than in the limelight, thus everything that I do, I do it just enough, I do not strive for the best that I can. But anyway, I love my life too, quite relaxing. =) It's the path I chose, and I'm gonna live it, love it! ;)


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Those are all past memories, but I believe that we are still able to walk a long way together in the future. The ongoing spam virus in Facebook is the hot issue now. Sorry because I'm always MIA, but don't you dare to leave me out of anything! I'll catch up with you guys when I'm online, so... Wait for me!!! :D And when we're all back to KL/Selangor, we'll have another gathering! ^.^ The last time at the round table with shrimp was very fun! :D I believe we will be making more memories together for many years to come. Maybe our families can go on vacation together too! Imagine our kids building sand castle together on the beach while the 3 of us are sitting under the shade, sipping lemonade... Lol! I'm thinking too far!! XD

That's the end of this post for my 2 best friends! ^.^ Phew, finally it's finished! It's 4am now!!! XD

If there is anytime when both of you think that you are alone in this world, then I would like to tell both of you that you have affect me A LOT in my life and have left a permanent mark in my heart that says: "FRIENDS FOREVER"! 
Thanks a lot to both of you!!!

Monday, 22 August 2011

Realisation

Just realised 2 things recently:

1. If you can't be the place where your friend choose to share his/her sadness, then be the place where they will seek for encouragement to move on! ^.^ Just be yourself, no need to mimic anyone when being with your friends. Your friends will like your true self more!

2. We don't have the right to be angry at our parents. Although we may not agree with their way of doing things or the way they control us, but we really don't have the right to be mad at them. We owe them too much and we can never pay back our debts in our lifetime. We spent their hard-earned money, they keep us weel-fed, they devoted most of their time to us, yet we still ask them to do this and that...etc... Our little thank-you is too miniscule compare to what they have done for us. What we can do is to not make life harder for them as it is now. Treat them well, even though it's still not enough, but at least it's something, and they'll feel comforted a little. Sometimes when I see them trying to do something for me even though I've just treated them badly, I feel so regret for my bad attitude. :(

DeeJay appreciates family and friends very much!!!

Wednesday, 10 August 2011

Short or Long Sleepers

I once read an article before about short and long sleepers.

Short sleepers are those who sleep less than 6 hours every night. It's not because that they are rushing for assignments, but because their bodies really need only that much of time to rest. So, don't conclude that you are a short sleeper too fast. Typically, short sleepers are energetic people, always on the go, ambitious, and doing twenty things at once. Many successful business people and politicians are short sleepers. Only a small portion of the world population is short sleepers.

Most people fall into the long sleepers category. Long sleepers need 8.5 hours or more to sleep every night. As long sleepers are a large group, therefore, it is hard to identify their characteristics. Nevertheless, as a group, they are more critical of the standards and demands of the society, and more introspective. They can be great artist, writers, and philosophers, as they are sensitive towards abstract feelings. Do you know, Albert Einstein also falls into this category? :P

Why are there two kinds of sleepers?

In computer terminology, short sleepers are "pre-programmed". All their activities are already planned out accordingly. On the contrary, long sleepers tend to constantly re-program their activities during the day, that's why they need more rest during the night. Long sleepers also seem to have more dream sleep than short sleepers. This is to enable their brain to study and join new ideas in their thought circuits.

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Interesting article, huh? My friends always comment about how slow my reaction is whenever they ask me questions. I always think too much, thinking about the several different answers in my mind. Haha! XD

DeeJay is a long sleeper, and always feel reluctant 
to get up from my bed every morning.
XD

Monday, 8 August 2011

49 Days


"49 Days" is a Korean drama. The heroine is in coma and is given a chance to live again, provided that she can find 3 people who love her sincerely. What is the proof? The 3 people have to cry for her, and she has to collect 3 drops of 100% genuine tears, not tears with other motives behind them, such as pitying her, consoling themselves for being healthy, forced tears, etc. Tears from family members are not counted though, as family will always stand by your side no matter what happens. As if this task is not hard enough, she has to use another person's body during the 49 days, and she is not allowed to disclose her identity!

After watching, it makes me think, "Family is indeed the best. I am blessed with such a good family. My father, mother and brother. I love them! Do I have 3 people who truly love me besides my family? Will anyone cry 100% genuine tears for me too? Will I cry 100% genuine tears for someone else?" I also learned that human is REALLY a complicated being!!! What they say and what they think are totally different. Sigh, not one person can escape from this behaviour. I admit, I have done this before too. Human's feelings are also constantly changing, nothing is forever. Love may become hatred, hatred may become love too.

This drama is really worth watching. It makes you reflect on yourself and your life. Have you lead your life well? That's the question you'll be asking yourself after watching.

Sorry...

Are my posts all this while offending some of you? Really sorry if they are!

But these are really what I feel being in my position. Perhaps some or many of you have different views, but that's because what you have gone through were definitely not the same as mine!

Anyway, I will not change my optimistic view on life, as that is also one of my strength. It may be my weakness too, but I certainly lead my life happily because of my optimistic quality. So, I do not plan to change anything of myself.

Nevertheless, I should really try to see the world from other perspective, so that I can understand other people more. But still, whatever we do, we can't satisfy everyone. So, might as well follow our hearts? Ahh! I am contradicting myself!

DeeJay's brain is all tangled up. @.@ 
Lol!

Saturday, 6 August 2011

What's wrong?

*Before I start my "lecture", I want to apologise to all my loyal readers. Sorry for making all of you wait! XD Nowadays, I will not be able to update very often, but I'll update as soon as I have time and inspirations. ;) Okay, back to topic... *

What's wrong?
What's wrong with getting last instead of first?
What's wrong with being a follower instead of a leader?
What's wrong with being the left hand instead of the right hand? (for right-handed people)
What's wrong with being a side-kick instead of a hero?

Without those numbers after number 1, number 1 wouldn't even exist...
Without a good follower, a good leader will never be recognised...
Without the left hand, the right hand will not be able to function properly...

Assume that 80 marks is A. If everyone also gets more than 80 marks, can you imagine what the new standard will be?
80-85 = D
85-90 = C
90-95 = B
95-100 = A
I can guarantee that this situation will surely happen IF everyone gets 80 marks and above. Why is that so? So that those corporate and government bodies can differentiate who's the best among the best. Sigh, what a pitiful society...

This applies to other categories too. Sports, any type of competitions...

Imagine in a company where everyone wants to be a leader, can the company really develop? To become ONE good leader, he/she needs MANY good followers!

So, what exactly do I want to say?

To those who feel that they are always being pushed aside, don't be sad. You play an important role too! Without you, the person who's in the spotlight may never be there.

To those who excel and got the attention of all the people, do not be arrogant! Think of those who have helped you along the way and BE GRATEFUL!

That's all I want to say.

Class dismiss...