Saturday, 22 October 2016

《微微一笑很倾城》·观后感

感触最深的,是当微微和二喜发生矛盾,微微 “离家出走” 的那一刻。。

其实真的觉得,每个人都有各自的特长和缺点。一班固定的朋友圈当中,可能确实会有几个比较出众,但如果是真心把对方当成朋友的,就肯定不会去介意、去比较的。那点小事,根本都不会放在眼里,连在脑海里闪过的机会都没有。为什么呢?因为真是好朋友的话,会了解对方哪里不好,可以很轻松自在地互相调侃,就算是优点也好,也会特地酸一下他们。

还好微微和二喜和好了。经得起风波的友情,必定会更加坚固。看她们恢复以前互相调侃的关系,感觉真的非常好啊!好朋友,是什么?就是拿来互相调侃的嘛,生活乐趣啊~

想对那些感觉朋友比自己优秀的人说:
其实优秀的他,是非常珍惜及欣慰有你这样的朋友的。能够自由自在地相处,畅所欲言。你也有他没有的优点,互相弥补、互相学习,把对方当成进步的榜样,然后大家一起进步,不是很好吗?

 想对那些被认为是比较优秀的人说:
不要觉得自己很孤单,一定会有那么几个真心待你的朋友。只要谦虚,自己真心待人,过得了自己的良心,日久见人心,一定会找到那一班朋友的。

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至于肖奈和微微的感情戏呢。。哎,偶像剧,真的是害了许多人对爱情的憧憬啊。。现实生活哪有那么美好,大家多多少少都会有一些需要磨合的地方的。要拿一盆冷水淋自己一下,提醒自己:“清醒吧,别中了偶像剧的毒啊!!” (不果还真是挺浪漫的,不禁会幻想一下自己会是通过怎样的方式认识我的那另一半呢?XD)

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孟逸然、娜娜、爱香奈儿, 小雨妖妖等等那一半女生呢。。看多了,真是怕会被她们影响呢。。还是远离为妙啊。。 真是怕自己会被他们影响,以后在生活里变成 “以小人之心度君子之腹” 的人。要训练自己成为不八卦,守口如瓶的人,真的需要很强的自制能力。


好久没有用华语写作了。看了 《微微一笑》,提醒了我,华语是可以如此地厉害,可以 “温柔” 地 “杀” 了人,也可以委婉地替人解围。(就像肖奈在舞会时跟风腾的董事长说的那段话,仔细一听,才听出里面的含义。)
华文真是深奥啊,一辈子都学不完的。要练一练了,以免生疏。

Friday, 30 September 2016

懒惰

懒惰,懒人。
我是个懒人。

懒惰,不一定指在动作上懒惰;思想上也绝对可以懒惰。
终于发现原来,我不是因为麻木了,或对人与人之间的复杂小情绪比较迟钝;而是因为懒惰。
懒惰去想、懒惰去在意、懒惰去复杂化、懒惰去计较。
只要想着:人非圣贤,人人都有好与坏的一面,他就是他,只要去接受就好了,反正也轮不到我来改。
可能就是这样,会让蛮多人说我容易迁就人。。
总之就是一个字:
没别的了,就这样。

我也不是什么神仙,也知道我其实没大家说的那么好。
怎么了?难道就不可以有人懒惰去猜疑别人吗?
我就是这样啊。何必浪费我的脑细胞去想这些没有意义的事呢?倒不如把时间花在做我喜欢做的东西~

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最近发生了一件事。。
部门会议时,两位senior 当着我面前直接向manager 表示她们的不满,说 manager 比较偏心我,对我比较好,肯教我很多东西,而其他人只是做死工。
虽然场面有点尴尬,但当着大家面前说出来也好,至少不是在背后。至少这是我认为的。有一位朋友则觉得她们这样做不应该。
其实我也觉得 manager 也有点偏心。她只对她喜欢的人好。虽然 senior 们也不喜欢她,但至少工作上要公私分明嘛。而且我还蛮敬佩我们的两个 senior 的。她们敢说敢言,哪像我,只会埋头苦干。
一方面又还蛮高兴,因为有机会学习不一样的东西。但至少 manager 应该做到每个人都教,每个人都分享知识,而不是知识对我而已。。。

唉。。。。。。算了吧,懒得理了。。。。。继续埋头苦干去。。。。

Sunday, 26 June 2016

回到中学·回到初衷

Went back to CHS with Khai to watch CHS 60th anniversary concert ——《情牵60大汇演》。(P.S. Just learned the meaning of 汇演:各地或各单位的文艺节目集中起来,单独或同台演出。具有汇报、互相学习、交流经验的作用。)

We were really flooded with lots of emotion... Especially that, what are we doing all these years after graduated? Watching them, full of passion, talent, creativity, and determination; standing on the stage, what have we done after started working? Work life is so boring, not even challenging our brain and creativity... And work life kinda sucks, since the day I was told about the office politics...

Actually everyone is just being themselves, we all have our longs and shorts, no need to mind too much. This is what I've believed all this while and keep reminding myself to keep believing. No one is really that bad to purposely harm another. But is that really it in this wide world? I have started to doubt myself...

Going back to high school, really felt like going back to my roots and able to stand firmly on the ground again. Watching the students actively selling their things for their clubs, I can really feel their passion and youth. Being young is so good! Like Khai said, did we give out the aura of hope too when we were in their age? XD

I was captivated by their performances on the stage——drums, Kelab Kebudayaan dances, alumni's medley of songs mixed with our school song, brass band's "When The Saints Go Marching In", 华乐, Harmonica & Guitar, Symphony group's "Viva la Vida" and "Smooth Criminal" (with the experience of us being in the center when they surrounded us and performed right in front of us), choir, and the last combination of all! Their standard is certainly not lower than 文娱! Everyone is so talented.

Will be going back for CHS Guides and Scouts' campfire on 16th July and CHS 60th anniversary carnival on 31st July.

Happy birthday, CHS! Thanks for the good memories, and good training ground for us to challenge our mind.



DeeJay thinks that she is able to lead life positively again 
for a long while after recharging herself~ :)